Sunday, July 12, 2009

Like father like...

3 weeks ago my parents decided to travel alone, and asked me and my mini-family to move into their house to hold the fort.

holding the fort entailed looking after my 16 year old sister, and providing food when needed for my 23 year old brother, paying the driver before he left along side all the little details of life...

As most of you, I recently became a dad, which is awesome because its a feeling that creeps into your life ever so slowly as the baby grows up. However, dealing with my very adolescent sister is slowly turning me into someone new. Because, all of a sudden i am a father of two. And one of my children is a growing young lady with all the growing pains and new experiences that comes with.

I find myself saying things like, "trust me, i was your age once" in response to sentences like "you don't know what its like to be in my situation". Granted, I was never a 16 year old girl.

I keep on realizing how easy it is to turn into our parents..

and dare i say how impossible it is not to...

4 comments:

Souma said...

As Oscar Wilde once said: “All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does. That's his.”

Saudi Dawn said...

Souma:
LOL

Frogman:
Good luck!

Mochness said...

That Oscar Wilde quote is a favorite of mine. I've it written in a notebook.

I hope you'll be as good a father to your son as you hope you'll be =D

Meena said...

lol @ quotes
- I often find myself saying similar things to my 12 yr old sister.
I am also to the point where college aged students look like little kids to me...